husband wants to spend every weekend with his family

Theyre always around and we dont get to do stuff together anymore. When you talk to your boyfriend about your concerns be careful that it is not perceived as an ultimatum, just that you would like to discuss other options of things to do on the weekend. which i think is what youre saying. Should I Ask Out My Hot Massage Therapist?, When Do You Know Its Time to Break Up With Someone?, My Daughter is Trying to Ruin My Relationship. If he goes to see his parents every single weekend while his gf, who has made it clear she will only go with him once a month, stays home, he is essentially choosing them over. All rights reserved. *If you have a relationship/dating question I can help answer, send me your letters at wendy@dearwendy.com and be sure to follow me on Twitter. . Yes, this. Maybe he feels that since he sees the gf all week now, he should spend weekends with his family. Declining to go really shouldnt require an explanation, but if he really needs one just say its a combination of the expense, that youve seen them more often than your own parents, and that you simply have other things you want to do this weekend. She does say they sleep there on weekend nights, so that would indicate that its longer than just a leisurely lunch. The second reason is that you know you will not have any peace from his parents. Its different than what youre used to, sure, and its maybe not something you would do yourself. So say to your boyfriend: I dont want to spend weekend nights at [your parents] place more often than maybe once a month, even if we dont have anything else planned. How is this difficult? She says but I cant seem to get my boyfriend to understand that I dont want to spend weekend nights at their place more often than maybe once a month. So, we dont have a failure to communicate, we have a failure to reach agreement on how they should spend their weekends. Youve got to convince him that he can enjoy There are no steadfast rules when it comes to spending time with extended family. I agree with the expenses. Youve already talked to your boyfriend about your feelings and he doesnt think hes doing anything weird. The thing is, whether or not his behavior is weird is irrelevant. Tax Geek But are they really guilting the boyfriend? Those are two crucial things that need to be in place if youre going to spend your life with this man. June 18, 2014, 10:44 am. If this has only been going on 3-6 weeks or so she might be just starting to feel the pinch, so it hasnt really come up before this. But Im a very direct, honest, forthright, loud kind of person. Then, he needs to ask her, calmly and without accusation, why she prefers to spend her weekends with her if the LWs learn this, we will have to find another source of entertainment, findingtheearth WebTherefore, his wife IS attending family functions on the weekends. Something like frequent arguments, disagreements, misunderstandings? lemongrass Its just that based on textbooks and the definition of words and so on, yes sometimes things will be labeled as normal or dysfunctional. Thats a long ass time at home, no? Too much info missing. 11. No ones a bad person for saying these things (except my aunt, shes the worst and in a league of her own), but if youre someone for whom this feels like guilting, it can start making you feel so bad. That in itself is not dysfunctional, but putting a guilt trip on somebody because they would rather do something else is. Often in relationships, we wonder if we are overthinking things and imagining a problem where there isnt one. She should say something about it to the BF at least. The relationship this man has with his family is dysfunctional and heres why. Share that with your boyfriend as well. But this situation doesnt even necessarily sound like heavy parental guilting (even though the LW says it makes her feel guilty), just like oh we want to spend more time with you! and the LWs not as used to letting it go. Yea I totally agreethis is a very short timeline. I would blow my brains out if I were with someone who needed to do something every single weekend all weekend long, even if it were just go to a friend or family members house. At best, you will an appendage to his family. Its not only a blow to your self esteem but also in how you pick your mate overall. I really would like to know if this LW is asking to actually do something with her boyfriend and hes flat out refusing. Although it is not mature, your husband chooses to run away from your problems in marriage to be with his family. The rest of the time he spent with me. According to relationship expert and dating coach James Preece, Neglecting your family and friends I dont go with my husband every time he sees his parents, and he doesnt come with me every time when I go see mine. Those conversations should have happened before. Im torn. For that matter, so do many of the ideas posted here in response. Each They live in a suburb of New York, where we live, and weve somehow gotten into a routine of spending significant amounts of time at their house nearly every weekend. Much of the advice seems to center around just talking to the boyfriend about the problem and even asking why the LW wrote to Wendy after only 3 weeks of a problem, without talking to bf. Its sad that we put our heads in the sand, but who wants to really start over, by themselves, when your husband or wife of however many years has been cheating on you. Years later, theyve never recovered. Im also close to my family, however, I never make my boyfriend feel left out and I always make him feel that he is the priority. Not we have to stay home the whole weekend, but how about we visit your parents on Saturday afternoon and then go have dinner and see a movie Saturday night. It certainly wasnt for me or any of my friends when they took the next step. And unless he has something planned, he stays in reading/watching TV/listening to music until bed at midnight. January 20, 2012, 8:52 pm. I am curious of yalls ages though. Addie Pray June 18, 2014, 12:55 pm. Its over the top. Hey, were in 100% agreement today, as opposed to 80%. My boyfriend and I have been living together for about 6 months, after dating for a year. For every invitation I declined, four more appeared, she said. ReginaRey Francine Well, then you are simply NOT a match. That was a reply to LBHFor some reason, it is not posting in the correct thread, lets_be_honest Through good communication and a fair division of labor, these chores can be tolerable or even enjoyable. January 20, 2012, 10:33 am. That's a tricky one as this issue must have crossed your mind when you married someone whose family is in another country - you Same way he knows about how I feel about abortion, politics, etc. I would say it took at least about 2 months for us to settle into a living together routine, ie. Im very independent , so it doesnt bother me too much just because I do my own thing anyway but it is still frustrating. Lemongrass Things are generally going well, but the one thing that I cant get past is how much time we spend with his family. He values his family and wants to spend his free time with them (and you). I agree with you AND Flake, RR.at the same time, if their biggest issue is spending too much time with his parents on the weekends I think theyre probably in pretty good shape. Oh yeah I forgot about that. I would focus on how you miss spending time just the two of you, exploring the city, going to your favorite restaurants, etc. June 18, 2014, 10:18 am. All rights reserved. Five months later I was pregnant. Pay careful attention to his reaction. Maybe explain to him that you would like to keep some variety in how you spend your free time with each other. "I Friends of her own? And for the love of god, dont enforce some kind of we spend every weekend together no matter what, because its not compromising on your part and plus when you live together that sh*t gets old QUICK. My point is that this guy is not going to change and if you try to change he may lash out at you and say hurtful accusatory things like that!!! Dont settle for an interaction that feels stifling, or youll be dealing with a bigger issue when the parents pass away. Do you just go to your SO and say, Dear, before we do that we have to talk. Look at the situation from everyones position. What I am saying that the best time to discuss your spending habits is not when the bill is already on the table, or you dont discuss birth control when you are both naked and about to have sex. CottonTheCuteDog You even noticed thatyour husband wants to visit his family without you. and second, maybe have a date night once a weekend or something like that, where you dont have the stress of work/school to think about for the next day. are they spending every minute of their entire weekend with his family? We live down the street from my boyfriends parents and hes always at there house on his days off. Whether you need help around the house, want to go on a romantic weekend getaway together, or just want to cuddle while watching movies, youre entitled to it. It doesnt have to be the way you make it out to be though. Our compromise (when we lived closer, now we live about 6 hours away) was that we would see my family for dinner once a month and that I could go over other times but that he preferred to stay home. January 20, 2012, 11:26 am. I have been marriend two my husband for five years. maybe your boyfriend assumes that if you guys dont have plans, you can spend time at his familys. Copyright 2023 Dear Wendy. January 20, 2012, 11:08 am. January 20, 2012, 11:06 am. I Wish I Were Homeward Bound. I think the issue is that you just need to communicate. I think the LW is saying shes being guilted, by the parents and the boyfriend. Oh yeah I forgot to leave out I never see my family at all he spends every holiday with his parents while I sit at home with my children, Skyblossom My point is that the important stuff should be agreed upon or found out with as much subtlety as possible before you even think of moving in together. January 20, 2012, 11:17 am. I know how he feels about adoption because he shared his feelings on it during a discussion I started simply saying someday Id love to adopt and really hope it will happen. Just over coffee, no contracts or anything. allathian I think that, though you try to play it off as not a big deal, you are a little jealous/sad that your boyfriends parents live close and yours live far away. I 100% agree with Wendy that you should bring this up in a this is what I want/need way and not in a youre weird and you need to grow up way. ?? I miss just being able to head out into the city at random, looking for things to do, which is what I did when I was single and even when my boyfriend and I werent living together. Firstly, it will be different for every couple, and secondly, some things you will never find out no matter how long you are dating until you move in together and go to sleep and wake up with each other every single day.. Right, If these things fail then she has to make decisions. You say We have a great relationship and I dont want this issue to grow into such a large issue that I cant handle it anymore one day. If Bitter Gay Mark disagrees with me, Ill reconsider. Unless, of course, there are some urgent circumstances. So many people spend a ton of time with family. January 20, 2012, 9:14 am. What about visiting your parents? This is how children are taught. To move in before youve even had time to vet the relationship is, in my opinion, risky. When you find that you and your partner spend most of your time together sitting on the couch watching TV or scrolling on your phone, a conversation most likely If you have something like, oh, I dont know, a skydiving excursion planned on, say, a Saturday afternoon that hes home, and maybe a float trip on Sunday morning before he leaves, that leaves just a small amount of time for him to see his parents enough for a short visit, but not so much that youre spending 80% of the weekend with them. I wonder if part of this is having to share your time with someone else. January 20, 2012, 10:58 am. If he came back home, he would insist that we spend the whole weekend out in the rural area hanging out with his parents. Bagge72 , silver_dragon_girl However, I think the As for your boyfriends parents making you feel guilty for leaving their place even after youve spent all day with them, you have to just let their comments roll off your back. June 18, 2014, 12:38 pm. Its sad cause I know for a fact this is a losing battle. Its super weird that hed rather bunk at mom and dads than yours. I do care for his parents and they are nice people but at the same time I want a separate life with just me and my boyfriend. I was saying you would know/discuss important things because you are in a relationship, without a business meeting atmosphere. No, spending 1 or 2 weekends with the parents or your boyfriends isnt that many, but it is, if you dont get to see your boyfriend at all in between these times. Link AnneJune 18, 2014, 10:20 am I hate to say it, but I dont think your boyfriend or his parents (especially his parents) are going to change. And if we dont decide to go there a weekend hes home, his mom will ALWAYS think of an excuse to drop by for hours at a time. definitely not enough information here. Im 99% sure hell be fine with this, unless theres something going on with his family that you dont know about. Some families really are just that close. Visiting families and spending time with siblings takes up much time in a marriage. It could be because some people purposely hide some of their not exactly good habits, or because you may never have an opportunity to see the less obvious habits. This can also be a consequence ifhis parents are selfishand manipulate him into feeling bad because he doesnt see them enough. Its a worldwide treasure hunt. The LW left out the most significant part of the story which makes it pretty tough for outsiders to offer any real help. June 18, 2014, 10:54 am. Do you guys never visit/spend time with them? And I dont think therapy will help the parents but it might be a good idea for the LW and her boyfriend. Like he was programmed that way. One thing is for sure, he comes home to you at the end of the weekend, even more tired than he left. Unfortunately, men dont seem to pick up that way. Youve been together four months. Thats an attempt at emotional manipulation and its not healthy. Another example is I would assume (i know, i know) if you knew me well enough to be dating me or moving in with me, you would probably know I am a big believer in X Y or X or totally anti XYZ. Either way, if she doesnt want to be there every weekend, this is the time to discuss it. During football season we spend Saturdays and Sundays, all day, watching football with the same people. You dont have to spend as much time with the parents as your boyfriend does & he might reduce his own time there if youre not there with him. For me to sit in the house miles away from my family because his family dont live over the road no more they moved may last year and he was up there alot by bus but now they have a car i never see him and i am not exagerating even when he is here he sits up in the bedroom and i dont see him unless he wants a cup of tea and to use the bathroom how ever when i go to bed and my son is asleep thats when we connect and have a good time chat cuddle but in the back of my mind i am worrying that there is more to him staying out all of the time and if its over i wud rather him just say so i can adjust to life with out him rather than live like this something has to change, Trust me girl im glad am not the only one that is going thro this i know exactly how u are feelin, Angelicque June 18, 2014, 12:24 pm. In perhaps nicer phrasingyes. Break up and date a man who wants to spend time with you. Its not weird to them. My dads side of the family is like this- I have an uncle and aunt who spend every day at my grandparents for at least a few hours. At best, a season and a half. Or drive somewhere without lots of light pollution to go stargazing. For the first two months we dated, hed go and see his mom for an hour or two during the weekend, because I lived in the same town as she did and as my parents did. I imagine the problem would be solved pretty easily. So the last month theyve seen his family every weekend? I would not enjoy feeling like I couldnt just be at home some weekends. She simply doesnt have to be at the parents place with her boyfriend that often. January 20, 2012, 9:38 am. Like the other commenters have said, just communicate! This went on for two and a half years, and after that we moved in together. artsygirl The LW just needs to talk it over with the boyfriend and agree with what works for both of them. January 20, 2012, 9:10 am. But I think what struck me is how little they seemed to have discuss things social preferences, money, etc. As a PP said, some extended families are close and spend a whole lot of time together, and girlfriends, boyfriends, spouses, get pulled right into the family circle. Even if they stay together and even if she manages to persuade her boyfriend to spend less time with his parents, the parents are going to resent the LW for it. Also, it depends on the relationships within the family. Your bf dated you before so you know he is capable of doing it again. I dont know how to handle a situation that hasnt happened yet. What should I do? (Which she did and he didnt do anything about it.) I think a lot of it also has to do with the fact that his job takes him away from both his parents and his girlfriend every week. some of my siblings and their significant others would come only for lunch and head out, sometimes theyd stay longer, etc etc. Michelle Just plan something, anything. Melissa Melms, who lives with her fianc in Hoboken, New Jersey, says making time for herself amps up her happiness, which in turn benefits the relationship. In this situation, with a fairly long commute, this guy is devoting if not the entire weekend to seeing his parents, then at least a huge chunk of it. The last few years, he's wanted to go to holidays with his family, it's important to him, and I've wanted to spend my Lets not start with how many siblings he has. . As your history with him has shown, he likes spending his weekends with you. If you dont say anything, how in the hell is he supposed to know anything is wrong? LW I would advise you not to make it seem like you are asking your boyfriend to choose either you or his family. He is not making her a priority & placing a lot of his focus & free time with his parents. ), you also like using your weekends to relax and enjoy the city in a way you dont get a chance to do during the busy week. Im glad you are independent but unless it is care duty his behaviour is odd to me, and Id find it hurtful were I you. June 18, 2014, 12:47 pm. ReginaRey Wendy has said she works 2 weeks or so in the future, which means she likely got this letter about two weeks ago which was right after a bunch of holidays! It definitely sounds like there are some boundary setting issues here, but IDK dysfunctional is a stretch. No, not necessarily. Sometimes he comes with me (although he is absolutely not obligated to do so), sometimes he goes shopping for things that he knows I have no interest in, sometimes he just sleeps and veggies out on the couch, or goes to the gym.. right! Ive dealt with this type. Im super indepedent though, and I coudlnt imagine spending all of my free time with one person. You dont want to talk about important issues with a SO so that you can pretend moving in together is a great idea because you dont know any better because you have SPECIFICALLY chosen not to know about better? You are still in the early days of this relationship so make sure you are upfront with your expectations. Your boyfriend is spending every weekend at his parents house because you are enabling that to happen. As your history with him has shown, he likes spending his weekends with you. If you spent every weekend together in the city before you lived together, it would seem that thats something he enjoys doing. Now he plans for you two to live as close to them as possible. Although that is a great idea, unfortunately, those plans arent going to work for me as my boyfriend likes to tag along his parents whenever he goes on trips. Do you ever say hey, I dont want to go, so Im going to stay home this time around, or do you keep your mouth shut with a smile firmly planted on it, rictus and all? im guessing its not going to be such a big deal, he just had no idea because you didnt say anything! I do think its a valid point to want more alone time with your significant other regardless of how hes spending the rest of their time, but I also dont see it as a dysfunctional family dynamic. That an entire day together isnt enough? its a really exciting time for your relationship! Husband thinks spending Christmas Day just us then dividing the rest of the following week between families is a allathian Self-reflection should always come first when we want to repair relationships with others, especially important people. Theres also always a cold beer in the freeze. So dont wait around for that. If he wants to visit his parents for dinner once or twice a week, his wife should be accompanying him. Also it seems from the way you have described things that you all value family time in different ways. ele4phant He told you hedoesnt want to spend Christmas with your family. Blondie January 20, 2012, 8:23 am. June 18, 2014, 11:40 am. GatorGirl Ooo, I might try that out this summer, that looks fun! My husband and I are very much like you all except reversed. I think more than anything, you have to have a VERY solid foundation of good communication to have a successful live-in relationshipand this letter makes me feel, at least, that they havent been together long enough to achieve that. But the way you spend your money, in my opinion, shouldnt change. His family is about a 3 hour drive away from us while mine LW, what everyone else said. It sounds pretty nice, to me! Not just loving-tight, but codependent-tight. Then offer a compromise. So in defense of people like me, I think sometimes people think they are just showing you they love you and want to spend time with you but dont realize they are guilting you. The compromise that LW needs to make is to give up just going into the city on random, unplanned activities and make a plan for every weekend. Isnt that the point of waiting to move in with someone? The parents, being in a position of power, are influencing their adult children by complying to this routine or set up. Different strokes for different folks. But if that doesnt work, I think you need to accept it or move on unfortunately. January 20, 2012, 11:45 am. Just because I didnt want to start over again. Next time, instead of going on trips together, try eating out or going for a picnic. spending evenings with his parents is one thing but choosing to sleep over there when they are literally down the street seems bizarre unless they are elderly and he is worried about them. The little things like who is taking the garbage out? maybe im misunderstanding you. It isnt every weekend though, he is gone every week, coming home only some weekends. I would totally be cool with buying a compound and having my family and Peters family live on it in harmony with us. They arent her parents. My parents live far too and it sucks that I cant drop in on them from time to time, that I have to plan a whole vacation just to see them and cram a lot into one tiny weekend. They just enjoy your and your boyfriends company and would be happy, it sounds like, if you never left. Ok fine, I actually beg DWers even to move in with me (Im looking at you, rachel!). If the situation is even more complicated, for example, if his parents are old or his siblings have problems, your husband will feel even more guilty for leaving them. 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