my wife doesn't care when i'm sick

Before this point I even got out books on herbal medicine to treat dangerous infections, spent $70 plus buying all the herbs and tinctures and mixed them up for him to take. I gave him other numbers to call of other therapist and he put the cards aside. Reach out in an inviting way. You also don't have a role model to teach or even show you HOW to connect. I was sick this past weekend into Monday with Bronchitis and my husband, who doesn't work during the week, left me alone on Monday when I called off from work. It was my truck. I had a migraine headache and vomiting a few years ago and said I wanted to go to the ER and he said , "If you had a migraine your eyes would be sensitive to light." I guess what i m saying is although the strategy may have a great chance of success for some, there isn't any upside in my case. If he ever got help, I am on board of course but this is a daily battle for HIM and I have decided that the only way to win is not to play. Submitted by Jr4par83 on Mon, 11/23/2020 - 21:27. I understand how having a stomach bug can be physically draining-hard to eat,sleep, ect But you are a 24 year old grown up, if youre sick, ask to go to doctor or if she can take you. He never asked where I lived, we had dinner and I was excited thinking he would accept therapy or say sorry. What I experience as frustration and impatience is to them an inability to integrate those unbalanced perceptions with the rest of their reality, and the overriding need to manage life a certain way - holding tightly to their structures and compensations, like a drowing person to a buoy. I never get any sympathy from him, but my children hug me, draw me upside down rainbows because I am in pain and can't smile, and try to help me. "I am a genius", "I have a genius IQ", "" I should have been someone important, and I could have been, If only I was given a chance". You never falter. BUT, we need to sell the house and the realtor is going to tell him to paint it back the way it was, because it won't sell being all jacked up. I think so. I feel like with every post, I am reading about myself. Submitted by notgonnalosemyself (not verified) on Thu, 04/13/2017 - 16:22. Like so many of the other posts, writing this post and sharing my feelings is very therapeutic. He has not been diagnosed with ADHD (yet), but he may very well have it as well. There are so many things he's broken or worked on, which have just become junk and broken down in the yard, garage and inside the house. We went to the diner and my life changed. He came home from work at 9pm and I said I was throwing up and had terrible stomach cramps etc. He's better about being retrospectively empathetic once my feelings/situation/perceptions are explained after the fact, but pre-emptively, or even sometimes in the moment, less so. ExpectingH to become someone he cannot/will not be is futile. I was about to turn 40 and here I was watching a grown man turn red in the face, speak horribly to himself for a broken scraper. Don't just expect the world of her for multiple days when she's working already. I couldn't even keep them down or even water it was so bad and my mom called the Doc back and he said if I couldn't keep the water or pills down to take me into the emergency room? Im the sick one, the one who is lucky to stay out of the hospital for more than three months at a time. I can understand mentioning it to him and maybe even asking, but begging?? He was disgusted. I start my day with positive thoughts of not retaliating, not overthinking, and not trying to change what I can't control. I feel a burden lifted off of me, especially after looking at my 27 years of marriage and realizing I am severely co-dependant. And your wife mightve been So, again, it's about him. She says take medicine or go to doctor. Submitted by thparkle on Tue, 03/20/2018 - 11:19. 50K views, 259 likes, 10 loves, 511 comments, 68 shares, Facebook Watch Videos from Dr. Phil: He Eats a Raw Animal Meat Diet #rawmeat #DrPhil #talkshow Thanks a lot!" Submitted by tiredmomma1 on Fri, 04/07/2017 - 12:12. You dont care about my illness. Been married 13+ yrs and anytime I am sick, according to him I act like I am dying. All I had to do was pay for the meal prep, and pick up the meals. You might be thinking, wow, why be with someone like that? The entitlements and abrasive treatment of others. Press question mark to learn the rest of the keyboard shortcuts. I hear you, I cant count the number of times my husband made it very clear that myillness was a hughinconvenience for him there was no thought to how it made me feel. My wife wants to be left alone, and I mean ALONE. If anything, I am stronger in your eyes. WebPsychology Today: Health, Help, Happiness + Find a Therapist After 2 years of therapy for myself, I am in a better place. He is withdrawing from you, and youre feeling alone. Are you sick often? But, he can't get past the victim hood yet. Its a cultural thing as a whole. That's his job. I still have another five weeks before the next set of X-rays, and have been off it this whole time: orthopedist's orders. Submitted by kellyj on Wed, 12/14/2016 - 14:18. If this happens once, it may not be a huge cause for concern. is already like this, it will only get worse. I WISH I was kidding. He was so sick he couldn't even think well enough to do his homework. I often try to put myself in his shoes and think "God I am so happy I am not like that". That is my H 100%! WebMy (soon to be) ex wife had little sympathy whenever I was sick, and honestly it really sucked. I understand what you mean. Particularly because we already feel hurt, and vulnerable, and scared, and embarrassed, and so on, in the very moment that we need empathy and support from them: and find it lacking. She even acts like I am somehow putting her out by not being 100%. I'm feeling better now! Who in their crazy mind would love to feel as the second best on someones life; throwing you with nothing but crumbs, and competing for their attention and love. Sorry you're feeling under the weather, drink plenty of fluids and rest, don't over do it. And I take. Someone who would listen to MY dreams, and want that for me, as much as I want his dreams and goals for him, and to help each other achieve those, if in our power. The one hoarding in the place you are trying to sell? One of the post said that when she is sick or hurt and can't "take care" of her H, then basically his world falls apart. Born with a congenital heart condition, she survived two open heart surgeries before age 4. If I'm sick or hurt (e.g. I asked him why he never, ever revealed that to me..no answer. For the first 23 years, I was weak, scared, blamed myself, cried til my face peeled from the salt, in some cases literally ran away to avoid his outburst toward himself, his violence to hiimself, his negativity. I emotionally detached from my husband, hated him for being in the way and making this emotional affair uncomfortable. But I truly think my husband is being a pussy sometimes. Even worse when these DisneyDaddys, lol are looking for a life partner, the first thing that they rub on your face is the: my kids come first b.s. Nearly 17% were estranged from a member of their immediate family. In preparation, he never did set up a way to communicate with her (In the entire last year), did not reach out to her before or after the surgery. Don't worry your anxiety to high and relax. in Psychology. You know all the important things. He even broke the kitchen sink to where it only puts out hot water. Sometimes they have had a crappy childhood - one person mentioned a highly detached mother for her ADHD partner. The Empathy/Systemising Quotient deals with the degree of emotional engagement vs systemising - an analytical deconstruction of inputs and outputs. If I wasn't able to mock her and call her out in the moment, it might've developed into some nasty resentment. ever heard of obsessive compulsive personality disorder? I hope he gets the help he needs! Yeap, but there are moments I'm being shitty too so I thought to myself this is just fair. He went and played soccer that night when I was feeling my worst. Maybe talking to her would bring it to her attention. to stand on my own and realize that until he gets help, this will not change and so it was time to live and grow and be "the mistress of my domain and my life". How do I know, I'm married to someone with a PD and this is how he behaved when I was injured when I was 8 months pregnantnot helping me when I was completely incapacitated. Perhaps he would consider reading the free treatment e-book (look in the treatment guide for it) and also consider adding some 'attend time' to his schedule. I will not call for a man when I am sick. Yeah, he's not that thoughtful. I agree his kids should come first. But that was a lot of days for him to be unable to make any time for you. My hu H's definition of love is thisafter I asked him "What does love mean to you?" And I also think- woe is the day he gets something as (he has never been sick a day in his life)I am not going to feel very compassionate. registered trademarks of Ziff Davis Canada, Inc. and may not be used by third parties without Being intrusive and obnoxious so my partner would pay attention to me. I have that kind of love with my children - simple, all encompassing, comfortable, aware, connected, attentive and involved it is possible to have it and I think it is a normal and natural human endeavor. Isn't THAT ironic? I was shaking so badly, but I didmake it down the hill, and didn't speak to him the rest of that day. Being a victim keeps him justified in his anger at the world, that life didn't treat him fair, and no one gave him what he DESERVED ,because he deserved so much more than he got. Become a Mighty contributorhere. Iris is also an Invisible Illness Warrior. All big red flags. Make sure he understands how much you like the connectionbut also how hurtful it can be when it's inconsistent. I like what Melissa said earlier, about becoming the person our husbands fell in love with. Or pulled a muscle in my back. And I got an hour worth of anger, a discussion about how no accident is actually an accident, an a public post on Facebook the next week about winter driving lessons. And that look on his face is what I will always remember. If she's sick, and the kids need something, she's on her own. Without question, without me asking. My husband's reaction? Submitted by dedelight4 on Fri, 04/14/2017 - 06:51. But there is something that hurts me so desperately, he acts like he doesnt care when Im sick. That's life. Pleasure. 2 yrs ago I was in a serious car accident. Her father was an alcoholic, who was always shit-faced, and died suddenly after getting sick. After calling him 3 times with no answer, I finally called his friend's phone and explained my situation. Sorry guys, I just had to vent and get it out of my system. Instead he walked around the car, got in the back seat and proceeded to yell at me for the next 15 min about how "he does not have time for this" & "why did I call him(my husband) and not my sister or my niece". Submitted by Punkin on Fri, 03/10/2017 - 07:12. I see we are out of aspirin and ask him if he knows of any in the house. Oops! You are doing a good job of differentiating yourself from your partner and I applaud that - best to be able to stand on your own two feet whether or not your partner is paying attention to you. Other times? I cam home ( after working out for an hour feeling worse ) and told my mom and she took my temperature and it was like 104 degrees!! Guy didnt wish me happy birthday am I wrong to be upset? Talk to her and use 'I need" statements. I had pre-marital sex before my first marriage and was pregnant when I got married. You carry on, steady through the storm. AskMen, Become a Better Man, Big Shiny Things, Mantics and guyQ are among the federally Keep in mind that on his days off (F,ST,SN), he Does NOTHING! I still picked up one of the children after school, and stopped off at a second hand shop to purchase crutches for myself - they almost rolled their eyes at that when they got home from work! WebNow I'm going to get sick! It CHANGED ME, and I'm not who I used to be. When my wife gets sick I take over and watch our daughters, 4 and 1, so she can sleep. I do believe the process may work if it s just adhd or adhd lite and there aren't significant co morbidities or emotional, physical or substance abuse and life is stable otherwise, ie no major financial complications. So cultural. My husband responded to me that if I went on medical leave I would have to stop seeing my doctor because he wouldn't pay for it anymore. He is talented but can't hold a job with benefits so I work despite having health issues. When I am sick I want to be left alone, just let me sleep it off. To live content with small means; to be worthy, not respectable; to listen to stars and birds, babes and sages, with open heart; to study hard; to think quietly, act frankly, talk gently, this is my symphony. Some otc antacids helped. I just need a bit of support lol anyway, my wife won't be back until 4 PM. Sometimes it's commitment to dinner hour where you discuss things together (rather than eating alone). Of course my Hcalled right back saying he could not hear his phone(yet his friend heard his on the 2nd ring). Submitted by AdeleS6845 on Wed, 12/14/2016 - 08:44. He forgot the anniversary and then gave me roses and a card and said that when I left him, all his ideas for our 25th went in the garbage. I don't think it's right, but I think it's true. The texting got out of hand and the rest is history. You go through all of this, the burden of having a partner with a chronic illness who is always sick, the worry when I dont text back for a while and you know Im home alone, the household chores I cant do, not because you dont care about my illness, but because you care about me. WebOne of the most common is a husband not being in tune with (or affected by) his wifes emotions. WebSign #7: He doesnt ask you any questions about you and doesnt seem interested in who you are. Qualities many w ADDdo not possess. He love bombed me too. sprained my ankle 2 months ago) she acts like nothing is wrong and doesn't ever ask how I am feeling or thinks I am being "dramatic" or faking. The whole thing is just very, very HARD. Iris is somewhat of a unicorn a zebra unicorn even! Yep. You go about your life, your work and leave me to deal with the insurance companies and doctors. It's not even his fault because stupid idiot "women" like you let men like him treat you like crap. Whenever he's sick I ask if I can go get anything from the store for him or do anything for him. This is daunting to say the least. I do this sometimes. In the main area of the house there should be 2 colors, and now there are at least 5. yikes!! I know your relationship is more complex than what I'm reading here in your postand it's not my business but he sounds selfish and self-centered. Yeah, he's not that thoughtful. I dont know why, but for some reason, you chose to love me, and illness or no illness, it doesnt even weigh on your opinion and feeling of and for me. I actually yelled at him, told him how selfish he is. It may make it more difficult to resolve differences or conflicts and the same He told I just had the flu and went to bed. WHAT? He was the only child in that family that didn't become chemically addicted to something, which he prides himself immensely for, instead of being "grateful" that he didn't become that. I scrolled through my phone contacts and one name popped out, an old mutual friend of ours. Devoid of anything? His mother died in a plane crash, this would finish him off if I left, etc. So i'm just learning but this is an ADHD trait? And, of course, there is their sense that others (including you) are out to get them. anytime I am not taking care of all of the chores (he works and comes home and rests-) he is vile. It gets to you after a while I feel lonely most of the day I get really depressed he wants me to clean up all the time when he goes (figues) but I am diagnosed with depression and anxiety it's hard for me to get up to doing simple tasks it's even harder when I have to do it on my own. Someone who can be inspirational, and help me or others see their own potential by being inspiring in themselves. I offered to set it up on his phone but of course he won't relinquish his phone, which is another story, and the primary basis of my divorce request. I had to research natural things that brought up the NK Killer cell count (there is no medical treatment for it unlike other immune deficiencies), and now it is almost gone thanks to the protocol the doctor let me put him on. That lasted about 6 months for us and about 2 years for me to get over. Personality disorder, character defects, I don't know not my job to figure out or fix. It doesn't appear in any feeds, and anyone with a direct link to it will see a message like this one. My ex didn't have ADHD. Sometimes, he can be vindictive in a passive way, like after I left him for that one month. Now I see, and now I can and will be your Captain Marvel. Gosh, feel better! I was so ill from stress and he never checked on me. I am a loving, patient, kind person who wants a partner to weather the storms of life with. If you need help, I will cook dinner". No one has ever taken a day off when I was sick . Yes, I licked the back of every airplane seat to make sure I picked up some kind of virus! If there's not arguments over dumb shit then something is wrong. I wasn't even allowed to adjust my own pillows. He is loved by many, not evil. Thankfully, our two children were happy to help me. When I got to the ER and they did a CAT scan, they said it was about to burst. Everyone understood, his friends, our friends and they wondered why it took me so long. it's not the same as OCD. explicit permission. I will always do my best but not at the price of my sanity. We all experience them. OMG. We had been friends for years and talked here and there. Submitted by MelissaOrlov on Thu, 04/13/2017 - 17:29. The weirdest thing is that the emotion of concern is the most intuitive thing of all in any living person. I only wanted to make things easier on myself, for three nights a week. I hope your foot heals soon and that you're getting approriate sympathy and empathy elsewhere. I was too kind, wanting to help TOO much, and didn't set boundaries. I've seen SO deeply moved by the plight of others. Threatening to get seriously ill and find ways to make dad a villainboth deeply traumatizing things to do to your own kids. Even though we were engaged and had a date set, I still shouldn't have gotten pregnant, and THAT action left me with something that I would have to deal with the rest of my life. I guess it could be that old saying of, 'Whatever you fear you create". Which is what gets me to why I'm posting this response: "I have to be extremely obvious in my disconnection attempts to get notice LOL - like a very deliberate snub. I was a great person to be around but the lies hurt and changed me. But in the end, that doesn't matter either. Kathy woke-up startled to hear her phone ring so at 5 am. He went to the session and was diagnosed with PTSD and ADHD. I only hope that someone else will read this and that they will share their story without fear of retribution or being attacked. Although I'm kinda desperate because my body just feels so weak right now. I have a high pain threshold and never take any days off sick. And all my dh could do was go on and on about how much the window was going to cost to replace it, and it was all my fault. I am sorry for your situation. he gets very angry. They wouldn't get angry, but they'd certainly seem "greatly inconvenienced.". I was hospitalized for 3 days after that since I was infected by the local food and I was pregnant. Submitted by peach on Tue, 12/13/2016 - 16:07. 5 signs of an unsupportive husband during pregnancy. That's just I thought it was me who was being unreasonable but after reading all these posts I am beginning to believe that those with ADHD who chose to do nothing about it should not be allowed to enter into relationships. Germaphobe type thing? Thank you for the commendation. I am not my illness; I am a warrior. How would you like her to act? I am very organized so I planned for thenext 20 days. My job is a blessing to me though. He despises sickness- like it is a form of weakness or something. It sucks but thats what it is. He will leave and stay gone 2 hrs and not even so much ask if I need anything at all. Some people have zero bedside manner. Jason and Maria want something entirely different out of the same marriage. It was horrible since I did it secretly. I wanted to hope that with me gone, and only him in the house, he would get to live the way he "wanted". Then he kept telling me I was going to be alright. We're still at the beginning of our diagnostic and therapeutic journey. When he arrived, he did not hug me, ask how I was, or show ANY CARE. #1. We can't FIX some of this stuff on our own. You cant expect people to stop. Just gotta get used to it! I grew up in a house where you were basically quarantined when sick. The latter makes you miserable (as you know) and relies upon him to 'think of you' at a time when he's otherwise distractedif that makes sense. I helped him in his business, to help ease some of the burden he said he was under. If I'm expectedto accept him as he is, then he has to also accept that I will no longer give in just to keep peace. My husband was in complete denial and continued on with his multiple activities, trying to ignore his son suffering. But, again, that is in the "now", but what about the "not-now"? Except it absolutely is an ADHD trait, and should be approached as a perceptual blind-spot on the part of the ADHD partner: Reduced emotional empathy in adults with subclinical ADHD: evidence from the empathy and systemizing quotient. Or begging him to drive you home. She offered to take a day off to take care of me but I was already feeling better so I just said no. They'll let me be to recuperate, since they know it's nasty. And, when I'm not 100%, then he's not being cared for. If you want to connect with your partner the 'trick' is two fold. Press question mark to learn the rest of the keyboard shortcuts. Submitted by vabeachgal on Sat, 04/15/2017 - 18:15. Two months ago I broke my foot when some furniture landed on it, rather severely (first metatarsal). If you DON'T have any kids yourselfplease run extra far. Then, why the * are they looking for a life partner in the first place?. But that's not what will happen if you marry a man with kids, and he'll pull the "but my kids" trump card on you all the time in BS waysto justify his own selfishness. No words. Even says just because I am sick, he is not going to pet me. I was a great person, still am as are you. So pick your battles my friends and learn about yourself in the process. It was a costly move but I just was happy he was getting help. 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